Happy Friday, Happy start of Christmas in July, and Happy 4th of July. That’s a lot of “happy”! I hope it’s that way for you in your life right now; and in this uncertain time, you’re able to find a way to celebrate the birthday of our country with those you love, and find some peace and serenity.
Truth be told, I was going to do a patriotic post of some kind today, it being the week of Canada Day AND 4th of July. But I did promise you the final Friendship post on Rosemary and Elizabeth, and a promise is a promise. I’m also convinced that true and lasting friendships are a stepping stone to make ANY country better. So! We started at Bumpy Beginnings, muddled through Reluctant Respect, and roller coasted over Feisty Friends. And now, we arrive at the stage that will never end; in fact, it will only grow bigger and stronger: Bosom Buddies.
Sometimes it’s amazing these two are as close of friends as they are, considering their history. Can you imagine being best friends with the woman who not only used to be engaged to your husband, but also tried VERY hard to steal him away from you? I certainly can’t! I’ve also been on the other side, Rosemary’s side. I’ve met the wives of a few old boyfriends, even guys that were just friends when I was younger. Despite the fact that I’m married with my own family, a couple of them have been very wary around me; I wasn’t even trying to steal their man. I guess that’s one instance when my exuberant, Rosemary-esque personality is a little too much for some people. I have a tendency to be over-the-top, and incredibly extroverted…sometimes…several times…most of the time. 😉
But they beat the odds! I’ve even seen some fans comment that they constantly forget that these two were ever against one another. Step One happened when Elizabeth gave birth to Jack Jr. It doesn’t matter where you are on the scale between mortal enemies and complete strangers; when you are helped through an unplanned childbirth, or you spontaneously help someone deliver their baby, you’re bonded for life. So even though Rosemary was still, well, Rosemary, trying to take even partial credit for the baby coming, that was a night that cemented them together forever.
But, Abigail was still there for Elizabeth to lean on, and to talk to. And then suddenly, she was gone. Now Rosemary is the closest friend, and most trusted confidante Elizabeth has. They share everything with one another. One of the aspects I love most about their relationship is how they share grief. They have no similar experiences that bring them sadness; Elizabeth is a widow and single mother, Rosemary can’t have children. Despite that, they know exactly how to comfort one another, exactly what to say to wipe the tears from each other’s eyes. Even better, they know how to liven the situation for each other, and bring a smile to one another’s faces.
Then of course, the biggest factor of them all: the big sweet boy. That’s the biggest bond of them all. Rosemary and Elizabeth have such a love for the little guy that radiates from their beings. Elizabeth loves her son with her whole soul, but speaking from experience, every mother needs a break, not to mention help. Having no children of her own Rosemary is more than happy to help in any way she can. And even though Rosemary got a trial by fire lesson in chilidcare when she and Lee kept Jack overnight, she would do anything for that little boy. She especially loves spoiling
That’s it for today, everyone. Sorry this is coming to you so late, it’s been another busy day. Once again, I hope everyone has a fabulous weekend, and that you’re able to celebrate in safety and happiness. This is Hooked Heartie, signing off. May your heart let your hope blossom.